Exactly a week ago, my ex (who didn’t talk to me for a year) sent me a message to my YM from nowhere. It was so unexpected that I even asked him if he sent the message to the right window. hahaha. Apparently he did. He apologized for everything and told me he had many regrets. Because I was taken aback, my frequent responses were ‘ok’ and ‘no problem’. It had been a year, it was just normal not to vividly remember what exactly happened during that time. In short, I willingly accepted his apology. I told him to put everything to rest because it had been quite a long time.
So after we chatted, I jogged my memory and tried to remember everything transpired last year…As I went back to the past, and thread things piece by piece, my annoyance with him was awaken! hahaha. I wanted to take back my acceptance! hahaha. I got a little confused. Yes I happy that he remembered me…But a part of me felt wasn’t ready talk to him. I stayed away from YM for a couple of days. I thought it through…I realized that I had to talk to him to see what his real intentions were… so that we can settle this for once and for all…If he wanted to be my friend, I had to tell him that I couldn’t accept his friendship. I know exes can be friends… As I proudly tell people, my other is ex is still a close friend of mine. But with this one, we absolutely cannot be.
Over the weekend, we talked over voice chat. We talked for 5 hours, an accumulated 15 minutes was allotted for me to speak and the rest was his. hahaha. To sum it all up, he was sorry…he still loved me…he wanted another chance…I was honest with I felt that I still have feelings for him but not sure if there’s still a chance. I said, I’ll think and pray about it. For now, everything is under negotiation.
With all the things that I need to focus on, the last thing I need is a romantic entanglement. We’ve spoken several times since last week. I know you can really tell the sincerity of a person by mere email, voice chat or texts, but somehow I know he has been nothing but sincere about everything… The problem is me, I’m not sure. I want different things now. I’m completely different from the unsure 21 year girl whom he fell in love with. Like that version of me, I can be emotional and more so, insecure at times. But in some ways I’m different now. Through the years we’ve been a part, I got used to being on my own, not considering a significant other. I don’t know…
June 29, 2009
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