I’ve been doing a research on how to cure my recurring migraine. According to the articles I’ve read that the primary causes of headache outside of a physical illness are: hormonal change, food, sensory stimuli, changes in sleep pattern, physical factors, medication, changes in environment, weather and psychological. According also to those articles, mostly its cause, prevention and cure all boils down to one factor, psychological. Cause, most likely can be psychological. Prevention, most likely can be psychological. And evidently, the cure, most likely can be psychological too. Upon reading them, they all made a lot of sense to me. My unbearable headache attacked consistently during and only on weekends for two years…years that I have stayed here, and been under a lot of stress. It was very strange because it seemed that my headache was following a schedule religiously. People around me said that my headache might be psychological. I’ve considered it but not really accepted it. It’s not because I was too egoistical to accept that I might have been suffering because of my own making, but because I couldn’t believe that was being controlled by my mind instead of other way around. I couldn’t accept that my subconscious was dictating how I must feel. Because as far as I knew (or as far as I wanted to believe), I could handle my emotions and stress pretty well, but apparently my migraine said otherwise.
I’ve had migraine even before I came here. But that only hit me once a month, during my monthly period only. When I came here, all throughout summer I’ve had experienced severe migraine during weekends. I thought that the cause of headache was the extreme heat of the summer. But when winter came and my migraine still paid me a visit, then I started to wonder. But then again, I convinced myself that perhaps like the scorching heat of the summer, neither had I experienced such iciness of the winter. So, I thought the two extremely different weathers were the cause of my headache. So to speak, I blamed the weather so much that I overlooked other factors that might also cause it.
But a frequent headache alongside nausea and diarrhea was intolerable. I could no longer take it. I couldn’t be stressed at work on weekdays just to spend my weekend enduring such a pain. I went to a doctor, hmm… what she said was not exactly helpful, “migraine is common”. She prescribed medicines (but I guess those medicine were for colds), but I still did my research.
As I written above, mostly it’s psychological. I do think that it also might be caused my other factors, such as sensory stimuli (fishy smelling food makes me nauseous) or change of weather (heat of the sun contributes a lot), however I think it’s primarily all in my head. So I made a decision to give back the power to control my feelings to the rightful owner…me. I’ve avoided factors that trigger my migraine, but also I started to deal with emotions that I supposed to recognize. I’ve learned to compartmentalize. If I’m stressed at work, I’d leave it out at work. When I get fidgeted about the future, I refocus myself in the present. If I live my life well now, I can eventually have a good future. When past hurt hunt me, I snap myself out of it. I tell myself that if allow myself to wallow in those pains I’d lose. So far, so good. I don’t want to take the credit for my success to beat my migraine (or should I say myself), these won’t be possible with God’s help. I’ve asked to give me strength to combat with these things. Because that migraine was merely the result of my mishandled hurts, stress and anger. Those things aren’t easy to battle without the Almighty’s help.