I hate it when I’m sick. When I’m sick I become triply sensitive than my normal self. My defenses are down and I’m at my most vulnerable state. I feel weak. And I can’t afford to be weak especially nowadays that I’m living on the edge – figuratively and literally speaking.
There is a possibility that we would be evicted from our flat anytime this week… well, not just us actually, but all the people in the entire building. A government agency will do an inspection and if they see that the building is overcrowded, we can be all evicted, the building will be closed down and the owner will pay a 50K penalty. Some of my flatmates are starting to feel panicky, so are my sister and cousin. I’m also starting to feel that way too but one of us should or at the very least, pretend to remain calm. I’ve been doing quite a good job so far. But I can only go on for so long since my defenses are down. I’ve remained quiet but lots of questions have been playing on my mind…questions like where would we go in this short notice, how would we be able to relocate fast with so many stuff, would we find a good place, can we afford it, and where would we get the money for 1 month advanced, 1 month deposit! With me feeling this weak, it’s gonna be hard for me to act cool. It’s just not fair. I don’t believe we’re doing anything wrong. The rent for an entire flat is staggeringly expensive. The cost of a year rent for a typical flat here is more than a million peso… we could buy a house in a subdivision with that amount! Since we can’t afford to rent the entire flat, we have no choice but to share it with other people…people that most of time, we don’t know but can surely pay rent. Of course, living with strangers is not always harmonious. We come home after a tiring day to a noisy, crowded, cramped place! In the morning we wake up early, go the bathroom to do our thing as fast as we could because we’re just allotted certain minutes and someone will use is next…And sometimes we have to go pee but we can’t because someone is using it. We can’t even cook in the kitchen anytime we want because we must for our turn. And before putting food inside the ref, we have to label it with our names otherwise others would eat it! And almost all our activities are done inside our respective rooms. In spite of all, we still pay costly rent for a very small space! I don’t wat to talk about how maddening that is… that’s not the topic here…All I’m trying to say is we don’t want this kind of lifestyle! We don’t have much freedom in our “homes”. Who wants to live with strangers? Who wants to live in a crowded place? We don’t choose this. We just have no other options. Don’t they know how difficult it is to live like this? Life abroad is hard. If only people back home knew the real living condition here, they probably wouldn’t be considering coming here.